I recently saw a clip of Jordan Peterson discussing the Madonna/Whore complex and it made a lot of sense, particularly in observing men and my experience with many of their fantasies.
Most married men do, in fact, WANT to view their wife as pure and virginal and they are likely to put them on a pedestal. But men also want a little bit of whore as well. And since they don't want to view their wives in this way, men may have the propensity to cheat and go find that "whore" in someone else (or turn to porn) because they feel that the "dirty" part of themselves can't turn their own pure wives into the whore of their deeper-seated fantasies. This hurts the dignity of the marriage, and that of the person who is the "whore".
In order to maintain sexual and psychological interest, men need to feel a little unsafe, uneasy and unsure... that there is the sneaking danger that the woman he loves could cheat on him or find someone else. That she could leave him and find someone more sexually fulfilling. This danger aspect psychologically keeps a man invested.
I've seen and heard a lot of things in my day, and quite frankly nothing surprises me. Usually if someone has one particular fantasy (X), it's pretty textbook that they'll also like Y and Z. The secret to remedying the possible dilemma of unfaithfulness due to their latent cuckoldry lies in accepting that ALL WOMEN CAN HAVE A LITTLE BIT OF WHORE IN THEM.
Yes. It's true.
And women shouldn't be afraid to let a little bit of that side out in the realm of fantasy with their husband. Shared fantasies are healthy and lead to a stronger bond and fidelity.
So, ladies... treat your husband like the pathetic little cuck he is ;-) , but also... remember that you are still pure. It's all in good fun and play. We don't have to take ourselves so seriously all the time, especially in the bedroom. Sex is not a duty, it's Love-making--with your best friend. It should also be fun!