"You are in the seed, the seed is in you and you are the seed itself." - Serge Kahili King
I've always known that sex and sexual energy is the key to opening the doors to the universe. Grokking during sex is something that has always come naturally to me. I have never read about it anywhere, and although I've read a lot of material on Tantra and Shamanism, I feel like most of it is not new to me and what I do (and the way I do it) is what my soul has known how to do for maybe a thousand years.
Grokking is a Polynesian word for merging with nature's elements to change existing natural conditions. In King's book, Urban Shaman, grokking is described as merging with something (or someone) and knowing it from the inside in order to change it from the inside. 1 percent of your self-awareness is retained no matter how deeply you grok.
You can grok inanimate objects, the earth, the elements, animals, and even people. I realized that when having physical or energetic sex, you can grok the other person's genitals or inhabit their entire being, feeling what they feel. Being completely inside someone, and them inside you--their soul inside your soul. Going this deep can bring up intense emotions, but once you experience that kind of sexual nourishment... living off of "junk food sex" just won't cut it.
Grokking while giving oral sex is one of my favorite things to do and I never even realized this is what I was doing until recently. It is easier with oral than penetrative sex because you focus much less on your own body and it is easier to retain that 1 percent self-awareness. It is endlessly satisfying for me because I can feel what the other person is feeling and how they are responding to my touch.
The process of sexual grokking is pretty simple. You can do it with your eyes open or closed. If you are merging energetically only and not physically, it is beneficial to close your eyes. This process is something I discovered on my own and it is very sacred to me. I share this with much love.
Here is what you do:
1. Feel your own energy in your body. You might feel waves of energy, warmth or see colors.
2. With your intention, have your spirit body "meet" with the other person's energetic spirit body in front of your physical body. Feel for the appropriateness of this and if it feels okay. If for any reason it does not feel okay, don't force it. (Optional: Put your right hand up, palm facing out and send loving energy to their heart. "Ask" if you can merge with them.)
3. Merge with the other person's energy and feel their spirit body within your spirit body. You may feel like you have both a vagina and a penis or that your genitals have become one, and stimulating one will cause sensation in both. You may also feel like your or your partner's energetic penis is large enough to reach up into the chest. You may feel penetration in a new way that you've never felt before.
4. Try breathing love deeply in, and deeply out. Receiving and giving love. Focus on the heart center expanding and let that energy flow to the sexual energy center below the navel.
5. When stimulating the other person, make every touch full of intention and really feel what they are feeling.
In time, this technique might come more naturally to you and you will naturally grok while giving oral sex or making love. You don't have to make it a big process every time, but it is good to understand how to feel this energy in the beginning and helps you to stay connected with your partner on a deep level.
You are me and I am you,
~Nicole~
~Nicole~
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